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Your Toddler's Language Development

What should your toddler be able to say? What are the warning signs of possible speech delay? Learn also what you can do at home to maximize your toddler’s language development.

Here are ten ways to deal with toddler tantrums and help your upset child

10 Tips for Handling Toddler Tantrums

Why do tantrums happen? What is the difference between a tantrum and a meltdown? Learn 10 things you can do that can help prevent tantrums, and deal with them when they come.

Why does my one year old throw toys

What To Do When Your Toddler Throws Toys

Did you know that there are three important things that your child learns by casting toys to the floor? Here are quick tips for what you can do about this behavior.


Night Terrors in Toddlers

Night Terrors in Toddlers

Both nightmares and night terrors are common in every age from toddlers through to the elderly.  But nightmares and night terrors are two very different things. It is important to understand...

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What to Do When Your Toddler Hits

What to Do When Your Toddler Hits

Hitting behavior in toddlers is common, but can be very stressful for parents who don’t know how to cope with it. If your toddler has hit someone else, take heart. Just like tantrums, it does NOT...

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How to Share Your Faith With Your Kids

How to Share Your Faith With Your Kids

Why Should I Share My Faith with My Kids? Children are the ultimate blessing. As parents, we each have a responsibility to raise our children to be the greatest versions of themselves.  The world...

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